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It’s been a while since I’ve posted here. I really missed posting somehow.

So, here it is… here I go…

(I can do any post right? Since it is my page???)

While watching a documentary about man’s life cycle (I think it was last week); the part where the woman gave birth caught my attention.

I think it’s one of the the most fascinating yet painful things a woman experience physically.

It was painful just watching her, but it’s relieving when you get to see the baby!!! (^.^)

So, because of curiosity, I searched the internet just to see if there are ways to lighten up a bit the painful process. Here’s what I found.

WATER BIRTH – it’s less painful for the mother and not traumatic to the baby. Some doctors say that the warm water ease the coming out of the baby from the womb to the outside world  (I guess the “Apocalypto water birth scene” doesn’t count, it’s  cold out there! The baby was freezing\(O.O)/)  So, as they say it is less painful than giving birth in a hospital.

Many Western women are practicing it now and they say it is way much better experience.

I thought, that was great. I even saw some videos in Youtube about it.

If you think water birth is for you, then think again because here is something that is sensual, romantic and blissful…

Not something you will associate with childbirth, right?

It’s the Orgasmic childbirth.

It’s like this –

To get this, you will need the following:

1. help of midwives

2. water tub with warm water

3. and a whole lot of kissing.

To make the story short,

There was a couple who planned to have their second child under a tree in Hawaii. They want it to be a new experience. So, while in the tub with warm water, the woman in labor  had her husband by her side. And as she was having contractions and stuff, she kinda made out a little bit with her hubby.

And poof!!!

She had orgasms and made it easier to get the baby out.

It’s quite uncomfortable to hear, but it’s basic science.

How does it happen?

According to Dr. Christiane Northrup –

The same organs involved in sexual orgasms  are being stimulated during childbirth since labor is associated with huge hormonal changes in the body. There are lots of prolactin, oxytocin and beta-endorphin which she said are the molecules of ecstasy.

How is that physically possible?


She said, whenever you expect pain you tense up your muscles, your stress hormones go up which increases pain.

It’s not that the woman does not feel pain, but she transforms it to stimulation through the help of  these “nature’s hormonal pain killer.” These feelings are blocked by anesthesia. So, you need to relax and help the hormones do their work.

I guess, it make sense.

Childbirth may really not have to be that painful. There are a lot of choices women can make nowadays with the help of modern science.

Personally, I think every woman is afraid of the pain of childbirth, but when you love your husband it is inevitable to give him the gift of bearing him children, which is a great and loving achievement for women too.  I guess what scares most people is that bigger box  you receive along with the baby. It’s called RESPONSIBILITY.

So, whether you are planning to have your baby under a tree, in the tub or in the hospital, be sure that you are planning it well. So, painful or not, make sure that you’re having them with the person you love most, the same person who will help you carry that bigger box. 🙂


Michael Jackson dies at 50.

Such a sad loss for the music industry.

sad. sad. sad.


Posted on: June 24, 2009

By: Jason Mraz feat. Colbie Caillat

Do you hear me talking to you
Across the water across the deep blue ocean
Under the open sky oh my, baby I’m trying
Boy, I hear you in my dreams
Hear your whisper across the sea
Keep you with me in my heart
You make it easier when life gets hard

Lucky I’m in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
Oooohhhh oohhhh ohh ooohh ooohh oooh oooh

They don’t know how long it takes
Waiting for a love like this
Every time we say goodbye
I wish we had one more kiss
I wait for you I promise you, I will

Lucky I’m in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
Lucky we’re in love every way
Lucky to have stayed where we have stayed
Lucky to be coming home someday

And so I’m sailing through the sea
To an island where we’ll meet
You’ll hear the music, feel the air
I put a flower in your hair
And though the breeze is through trees
Move so pretty you’re all I see
As the world keep spinning round
You hold me right here right now

Lucky I’m in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
Lucky we’re in love every way
Lucky to have stayed where we have stayed
Lucky to be coming home someday

Ooohh ooooh oooh oooh ooh ooh ooh ooh
Ooooh ooooh oooh oooh ooh ooh ooh ooh


Posted on: June 24, 2009

392432118lI’m very much excited right now!

What a better way to enjoy manga and do your work at the same time.

Today, I got a message from Jun-chan and I passed the test.

This is just nice (^.^). It’s this new experience I guess that gives me the bliss.

I work for a subtitling company and my friends are supportive about this.

Of course, I still have to focus on my priorities! I have to focus. There are much more important things to be done. (Yups, I have to remember that all the time or else someone might kill me)

I hope to learn more. I do.

I think I’m not into animation right now, but it’s cool, maybe someday.

I don’t know…the problem about me is that I usually gets bored when I’m not that REALLY, REALLY interested in one thing. It’s  the other way around if I LOVE what I’m doing, but I really want to try something new.

That’s something I like to acquire from some people I know –  the courage to try new things. My friend told me to try new things for a change. I guess I should. It won’t hurt to try, right?

I’m happy that there are people who encourage me to do other stuff. I’m feeling very much blessed.

Next time I will learn to play the guitar.

At last a guy has taken the time to write this all down  Finally, the guys’ side of the story. (I must admit, it’s pretty good.) We always hear the rulesFrom the female side. Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules! Please note.. these are all numbered “1” ON PURPOSE!

1.   Men are NOT mind readers.

1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You’re a big girl. If it’s up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don’t hear us complaining about you leaving it down.

1. Sunday sports. It’s like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be.

1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way.

1. Crying is blackmail.

1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one:  Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work!  Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!

1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That’s what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.

1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a Problem. See a doctor.

1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 Days.

1. If you won’t dress like the Victoria’s Secret girls, don’t Expect us to act like soap opera guys.

1. If you think you’re fat, you probably are.
Don’t ask us.

1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one

1. You can either ask us to do something Or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.

1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.

1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.

1. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.

1. If we ask what is wrong and you say “nothing,” We will act like nothing’s wrong.
We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.

1. If you ask a question you don’t want an answer to, Expect an answer you don’t want to hear.

1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really.

1. Don’t ask us what we’re thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as SEX, CARS,  the shotgun formation,

1. You have enough clothes.

1. You have too many shoes.

1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!

1. Thank you for reading this. Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight;

But did you know men really don’t mind that? It’s like camping.

Miracle of life right before my eyes…

It’s like the goat version of SMELLY CAT!!!

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