So, here it is… here I go…

(I can do any post right? Since it is my page???)

While watching a documentary about man’s life cycle (I think it was last week); the part where the woman gave birth caught my attention.

I think it’s one of the the most fascinating yet painful things a woman experience physically.

It was painful just watching her, but it’s relieving when you get to see the baby!!! (^.^)

So, because of curiosity, I searched the internet just to see if there are ways to lighten up a bit the painful process. Here’s what I found.

WATER BIRTH – it’s less painful for the mother and not traumatic to the baby. Some doctors say that the warm water ease the coming out of the baby from the womb to the outside world  (I guess the “Apocalypto water birth scene” doesn’t count, it’s  cold out there! The baby was freezing\(O.O)/)  So, as they say it is less painful than giving birth in a hospital.

Many Western women are practicing it now and they say it is way much better experience.

I thought, that was great. I even saw some videos in Youtube about it.

If you think water birth is for you, then think again because here is something that is sensual, romantic and blissful…

Not something you will associate with childbirth, right?

It’s the Orgasmic childbirth.

It’s like this -

To get this, you will need the following:

1. help of midwives

2. water tub with warm water

3. and a whole lot of kissing.

To make the story short,

There was a couple who planned to have their second child under a tree in Hawaii. They want it to be a new experience. So, while in the tub with warm water, the woman in labor  had her husband by her side. And as she was having contractions and stuff, she kinda made out a little bit with her hubby.

And poof!!!

She had orgasms and made it easier to get the baby out.

It’s quite uncomfortable to hear, but it’s basic science.

How does it happen?

According to Dr. Christiane Northrup -

The same organs involved in sexual orgasms  are being stimulated during childbirth since labor is associated with huge hormonal changes in the body. There are lots of prolactin, oxytocin and beta-endorphin which she said are the molecules of ecstasy.

How is that physically possible?

RELAX.

She said, whenever you expect pain you tense up your muscles, your stress hormones go up which increases pain.

It’s not that the woman does not feel pain, but she transforms it to stimulation through the help of  these “nature’s hormonal pain killer.” These feelings are blocked by anesthesia. So, you need to relax and help the hormones do their work.

I guess, it make sense.

Childbirth may really not have to be that painful. There are a lot of choices women can make nowadays with the help of modern science.

Personally, I think every woman is afraid of the pain of childbirth, but when you love your husband it is inevitable to give him the gift of bearing him children, which is a great and loving achievement for women too.  I guess what scares most people is that bigger box  you receive along with the baby. It’s called RESPONSIBILITY.

So, whether you are planning to have your baby under a tree, in the tub or in the hospital, be sure that you are planning it well. So, painful or not, make sure that you’re having them with the person you love most, the same person who will help you carry that bigger box.

Such a sad loss for the music industry.

sad. sad. sad.

Do you hear me talking to you
Across the water across the deep blue ocean
Under the open sky oh my, baby I’m trying
Boy, I hear you in my dreams
Hear your whisper across the sea
Keep you with me in my heart
You make it easier when life gets hard

Lucky I’m in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
Oooohhhh oohhhh ohh ooohh ooohh oooh oooh

They don’t know how long it takes
Waiting for a love like this
Every time we say goodbye
I wish we had one more kiss
I wait for you I promise you, I will

Lucky I’m in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
Lucky we’re in love every way
Lucky to have stayed where we have stayed
Lucky to be coming home someday

And so I’m sailing through the sea
To an island where we’ll meet
You’ll hear the music, feel the air
I put a flower in your hair
And though the breeze is through trees
Move so pretty you’re all I see
As the world keep spinning round
You hold me right here right now

Lucky I’m in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
Lucky we’re in love every way
Lucky to have stayed where we have stayed
Lucky to be coming home someday

Ooohh ooooh oooh oooh ooh ooh ooh ooh
Ooooh ooooh oooh oooh ooh ooh ooh ooh

What a better way to enjoy manga and do your work at the same time.

Today, I got a message from Jun-chan and I passed the test.

This is just nice (^.^). It’s this new experience I guess that gives me the bliss.

I work for a subtitling company and my friends are supportive about this.

Of course, I still have to focus on my priorities! I have to focus. There are much more important things to be done. (Yups, I have to remember that all the time or else someone might kill me)

I hope to learn more. I do.

I think I’m not into animation right now, but it’s cool, maybe someday.

I don’t know…the problem about me is that I usually gets bored when I’m not that REALLY, REALLY interested in one thing. It’s  the other way around if I LOVE what I’m doing, but I really want to try something new.

That’s something I like to acquire from some people I know -  the courage to try new things. My friend told me to try new things for a change. I guess I should. It won’t hurt to try, right?

I’m happy that there are people who encourage me to do other stuff. I’m feeling very much blessed.

Next time I will learn to play the guitar.

At last a guy has taken the time to write this all down  Finally, the guys’ side of the story. (I must admit, it’s pretty good.) We always hear “the rules” From the female side. Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules! Please note.. these are all numbered “1” ON PURPOSE!

1.   Men are NOT mind readers.

1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You’re a big girl. If it’s up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don’t hear us complaining about you leaving it down.

1. Sunday sports. It’s like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be.

1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way.

1. Crying is blackmail.

1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one:  Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work!  Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!

1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That’s what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.

1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a Problem. See a doctor.

1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 Days.

1. If you won’t dress like the Victoria’s Secret girls, don’t Expect us to act like soap opera guys.

1. If you think you’re fat, you probably are.
Don’t ask us.

1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one

1. You can either ask us to do something Or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.

1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.

1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.

1. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.

1. If we ask what is wrong and you say “nothing,” We will act like nothing’s wrong.
We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.

1. If you ask a question you don’t want an answer to, Expect an answer you don’t want to hear.

1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really.

1. Don’t ask us what we’re thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as SEX, CARS,  the shotgun formation,
or NASCAR.

1. You have enough clothes.

1. You have too many shoes.

1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!

1. Thank you for reading this. Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight;

But did you know men really don’t mind that? It’s like camping.
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Miracle of life right before my eyes…

It’s like the goat version of SMELLY CAT!!!

I could try you with a waltz
I could try you rock and roll
I could try you with the blues
If a song would do

I could sing it high or low
When I let you go you know
I thought it was for the best
Now it is so obvious

So here it is, here it goes
I could try rock and roll
I would change your life forever too
If a song could get me you
I could make it high or low
Sing it on the radio
If that is what I need to do
If a song could get me you

I could run for miles and miles
I’d take off and I’d start flying
I could cross land and sea
If you just believe me

I should not have hurt you so
This old house is not a home
Without you here, there’s no use
I’ve got no time left to lose

So here it is, here it goes
I could try rock and roll
I would change your life forever too
If a song could get me you
I could make it high or low
Sing it on the radio
If that is what I need to do
If a song could get me you

[ Marit Larsen Lyrics are found on www.songlyrics.com ]
If a song could get me through
I’d sing my way, right back to you
Tell me how, to make it right
Tell me now, I’ll start tonight
I know I could make it last

I swear to you that if I knew
What I was getting myself into
I wouldn’t answer to my fears
I’d never leave you standing there

Just look at me

If you’d only see me
I would prove my love for you
I could swallow half the moon
Just tell me where, tell me when
I will have you back again

So here it is, here it goes
I could try rock and roll
I would change your life forever too
If a song could get me you
I could make it high or low
Sing it on the radio
If that is what I need to do
If a song could get me you

So here it is, here it goes
I could try rock and roll
I would change your life forever too
If a song could get me you
I could make it high or low
Sing it on the radio
If that is what I need to do
If a song could get me you

You’re on the phone with your girlfriend,
shes upset,
shes going off about something that you said,
she doesn’t get your humor like i do.
I’m in the room its a typical Tuesday night,
I’m listening to the kind of music she doesn’t like,
and she’ll never know your story like i do.

But she wears short skirts,
i wear t-shirts,
she’s cheer captain and I’m on the bleachers,
dreaming ’bout the day
when you wake up and find that what you’re looking for has been here the whole time

[Chorus]
If you could see that I’m the one who understands you,
been here all along so why can’t you see,
You belong with me
You belong with me.

Walkin’ the streets with you and your worn out jeans,
I can’t help thinking this is how it ought to be,

Laughing on a park bench thinking to myself,
‘hey isn’t this easy’,
and you’ve got a smile that can light up this whole town,
i haven’t seen it in a while since she brought you down,
you say you’re fine,
i know you better than that,
hey what you doing with a girl like that?

She wear’s high heels,
i wear sneakers,
she’s cheer captain and I’m on the bleachers,
dreaming ’bout the day when you wake up and find that what you’re looking for has been here the whole time

[Chorus]
If you could see that I’m the one who understands you,
been here all along so why can’t you see,
You belong with me

Standing by,
waiting at your back door,
all this time how could you not know baby,
you belong with me.
you belong with me.

Oh, remember you driving to my house in the middle of the night,
I’m the one who makes you laugh when you know you’re ’bout to cry,
i know your favourite songs
and you tell me ’bout your dreams
think i know where you belong,
think i know it’s with me.

[Chorus]
Can’t you see that I’m the one who understands you,
been here all along so why can’t you see,
You belong with me
You belong with me

Standing by,
waiting at your back door,
all this time how could you not know baby,
you belong with me.
you belong with me.
you belong with me.

have you ever thought just maybe,
you belong with me.
you belong with me.

Drew looks at me
I fake a smile so he won’t see
What I want and I need
And everything that we should be

I’ll bet she’s beautiful
That girl he talks about
And she’s got everything
That I have to live without

Drew talks to me
I laugh ’cause it’s just so funny
I can’t even see
Anyone when he’s with me

He says he’s so in love
He’s finally got it right
I wonder if he knows
He’s all I think about at night

He’s the reason for the teardrops on my guitar
The only thing that keeps me wishing on a wishing star
He’s the song in the car I keep singing
Don’t know why I do

Drew walks by me
Can he tell that I can’t breathe?
And there he goes, so perfectly
The kind of flawless I wish I could be

She better hold him tight
Give him all her love
Look in those beautiful eyes
And know she’s lucky ’cause

He’s the reason for the teardrops on my guitar
The only thing that keeps me wishing on a wishing star
He’s the song in the car I keep singing
Don’t know why I do

So I drive home alone
As I turn out the light
I’ll put his picture down
And maybe get some sleep tonight

‘Cuz he’s the reason for the teardrops on my guitar
The only one who’s got enough of me to break my heart
He’s the song in the car I keep singing
Don’t know why I do

He’s the time taken up but there’s never enough
And he’s all that I need to fall into
Drew looks at me
I fake a smile so he won’t see